Coaching with Nic

This isn’t therapy as you know it.
This is education based forward thinking client-led exploration.

You will be empowered with the tools and skills to figure out where you are, where you want to be, and how you’re going to get there.

Let’s break down barriers, challenge beliefs and transform your sexual well-being!

What happens in a somatic sexology session?

Somatic sexology is a holistic educational approach to sexual health and pleasure, integrating somatic and embodied practices to explore emotions and sensations within the body.

Together we’ll utilise these tools (such as breathing, mindfulness, shifting awareness) to reflect on what you’re currently experiencing sexually, and where you want to get to.

e.g. “I’ve never orgasmed with a partner but I would like to.”

Sessions are body focused but talk based. There is no nudity or touch between us. I’ll simply guide you in listening to what your body is telling you.

My coaching style is distinct from traditional sex therapy in that instead of focussing on the diagnosis of a sexual dysfunction or disorder, you will expand and move towards a goal of sex positivity and pleasure!

Sessions are collaborative and client-led. We’ll go at your pace and focus on what’s important to you. You will leave each session with take home exercises, educational resources and a renewed sense of excitement about sex!

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What people are saying

  • Just gotta say, I love you and your little clitoral model you showed us the other day. I've had some of the best orgasms of my life this past week.

    Couples coaching

  • Thank you for your sweet words and thanks again for the beautiful sessions. You are a gifted guide and a brilliant facilitator

    1:1 coaching

1:1 session

60 mins

Available online or in person in Coffs Harbour

Some examples of goals for one on one coaching are:

  • Expanding sexual skills

  • Increasing orgasmicity

  • Early ejaculation and erectile difficulty

  • Reducing sexual shame

$120

Couples session

90 mins

Available online or in person in Coffs Harbour

Some examples of goals for couples coaching are:

  • Increasing intimacy between partners

  • Challenging sexual roles or scripts

  • Reducing pain or discomfort during sex

  • Understanding consent

$150

Workshops and events

An experienced speaker and facilitator, I am available to speak at events, ranging from small private workshops to larger festival appearances.

Topics that I am passionate about speaking on include:

  • Consent and communication

  • Understanding anatomy and pleasure

  • Slowing down and mindfulness

  • Nervous system regulation and safety

  • Love and relationships

$ Get in touch for a custom quote

Still feeling a little unsure?

Book a 15 minute introductory phone chat with me. Completely free.

Get in touch

Interested in working together but still have a few questions?

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Sexology sessions are available online or at the Coffs Harbour clinic.